H.O.M.E.-spun Christian Recipe For Effing-Up Their Gay Kids

H.O.M.E. dove

H.O.M.E. dove

I ran across this website, H.O.M.E., in a comment somewhere.  “Heterosexuals Organized for a Moral Environment”, listed on the SPLC’s website as an active hate group in 2008.  This hideous, primitive-looking site is lined with flapping doves, and screams all about Teh Evil Homosekshul Agenda™.

They give a “supportive message” to parents of gay kids, instructions, actually, to guarantee that their child will suffer a lifetime of self-loathing.  To paraphrase, “Take your kids, tell them they are evil scum and an embarrassment to the family and that they are no longer welcome at family functions, and Have fun in Hell!”  Read this disgusting, damaging advice in full, HERE:, or after the “read more” button.

Complete text of “Supportive Message To Parents Of Homosexual Children” (bold emphasis and [notes] added):

To those parents who find themselves in the emotionally confusing and distressing position [because you make it that way] of having a daughter or son who believes he/she is homosexual, we humbly offer the following loving but morally responsible [not!] message as a sort of guide for those parents struggling for words to communicate to that homosexual child.

“Dear daughter (or son),

“Whatever the reason for your homosexual orientation, it is probably not something you chose. We will not criticize you for something you did not choose. We love you and will not reject you for having an orientation you feel you were born with [LIE – this is contradicted below], for example. After all, we were ALL born imperfect. We were all born with somewhat animalistic natures, and we all have immoral desires because of those natures. It is our obligation, however, to NOT act on those immoral desires, even if those desires have a natural or genetic basis. It is our obligation to suppress or ignore immoral desires. [but, there is nothing immoral or animalistic about it – Every human being wants the same thing.]

“Now, it is possible to show that homosexual activity is physiologically unnatural. [it is very natural] Because of that, it is possible to show that it is also relatively unhealthy and thus costly to society both financially and in human terms. [LIES] It is also possible to show that homosexual activity is immoral. So, at the least we expect you to abstain from homosexual activity; and at the most, we would like to see you learn to enjoy heterosexual activity.  [but she/he can’t – and what is it with this “activity” thing? – christianists make this all about sex]

“Modern psychology knows people can be conditioned to enjoy practically anything. We believe you can—via conscious, repeated, and persistent fantasizing about being pleasured by the opposite sex—learn to enjoy heterosexual sex. You may never find it as exciting as you think you would find homosexual sex, but we think you can still learn to find it stimulating and satisfying. [O.K., so –  now you’re telling your kids to commit “the sin of lust”? – Do you provide christian sex toys for them to practice with? – Yeh, get ’em an opposite-sex Blow-Up Doll! Hire Carrie?]

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Train him early to like heterosexual sex


“And if for some reason you can never learn [duh!] to enjoy heterosexual sex, if you feel you must be sexually abstinent, that doesn’t mean you have to be miserable. There are plenty of people out there who aren’t in love with anyone or aren’t having sex, yet they are happy. You don’t need to have sex to be happy. There are other ways to achieve happiness. You can have good friends (even good friends of the opposite sex). [you mean, ‘go find some fag hags’?] You can enjoy good music, or nature walks, or sports, etc., etc. You do NOT have to give up hope of being happy just because you don’t engage in homosexual sex or don’t allow yourself to fall in homosexual love. [we’d rather you spend a lifetime in loneliness, never finding the happiness that a committed relationship can give.]

“Now, if you feel that you have to engage in homosexual activity, as long as you are living in our house we must insist you don’t. [your house, your rules – fair enough] If you go ahead and do so, you will create problems. That is a choice you will have to make. And if you are living outside of our home, and you choose to flaunt the fact that you engage in homosexual activity, that will also create embarrassing problems. No moral family [you’re exempted] is going to be very welcoming to members of that family who loudly and proudly engage in immoral activity, be it cheating on a spouse or homosexual activity or whatever. You can surely understand that. It will be much easier to include and welcome you in family functions (though it could still be awkward) if you are discreet about your homosexual activity. Needless to say, any homosexual lovers/partners you have will not be welcome at family functions, like weddings for example. Actions have consequences. Choices have consequences. [This abominable letter lays out YOUR goddamned ‘actions’ and ‘choices’, you fucking hypocrites!]

“We must stress that we love you. That will never change. But what form of expression that love takes, however, will be determined by your behavior. Moral, responsible love doesn’t accept any and all behaviors. We hope you will do the right things. [like, living an honest life, you mean?] If you do, we can love you with open arms. If you choose to do the wrong things, family relationships will become very “complicated” and problematic. Please let moral truths guide your heart and mind, instead of letting your emotions get the better of you. Make us as proud of you [what, by living a lie, like you?] in everything you do as we hope we have made you proud of us in everything we’ve done.”

This is the christian formula for making sure their gay offspring end up with a lifetime of self-loathing and pain.  The rest of the links on their website parrot the same old disproven, discredited propaganda aimed at de-humanizing and condemning gay people.

All ya have to do is slap on the Name of Jesus™ and you can do any goddamn thing you want to — you can give the worst advice, you can harm anyone you want — and it’s all good, praise Jeebus.

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